I find it genuinely bizarre that having sex with a man 20 years older than you is still taboo.
During dinner with a friend recently, she asked me, with one eyebrow raised, what I think the main difference is between sleeping with older men versus younger men. After deciding that should be the title of my autobiography, I gave her my rationale: Their grimaces are the giveaway. If a guy has grey hair on his head, is it a surprise if he has grey hair downstairs?
And better that than if he'd been dying them. The only real difference is that older men are normally a little heavier around the gut — you can't be expected to have 20 years' more eating experience without it showing.
I went on a date with a guy my age 29 — graphic designer — cute — stupid name. And there are no games with the older guy. The sex is just sexy naked male on couch. And second.
When I sleep with young guys, I find myself in ridiculous positions with my head hanging backwards off the bed. With older guys we stick to the tried and tested positions — and the sex is actually better for it because I can relax and concentrate on the task at hand having an intense orgasm — thanks.
And my GOD, that really is a bonus. Ben Wa Balls: Diana Johnson: BY Anonymous Posted on 13 06